It's not only children who
are sacred
Tileah Drahm-Butler
Email:
tdrahm@rfdsqld.com.au
In the current
conversations about sexual abuse in Indigenous communities we are
hearing a lot about how 'children are sacred'. While this is
true, it may also be important to consider the real effects of this
understanding - as they can be positive or negative depending on how
this phrase is evoked and what actions it informs.
There is a
particular tradition of thinking within the health/welfare field
called 'child centred practice'. While this sounds like a very
positive idea, for marginalized communities it can be more complex.
Sometimes, child centred practice leads to health and welfare
practitioners seeing the wellbeing of children as somehow separate
from the wellbeing of adults, families and communities. Sometimes,
it leads to health professionals becoming the experts on the lives
of children from marginalized communities (rather than the parents
and communities themselves having a meaningful say in the lives of
their children). Sometimes, 'child centred practice' can be informed
by racism and class-based discrimination that implies that what
would be best for children is if they were raised according to
white, middle-class standards and by white middle-class families.
In
Australia, there
are long histories of health professionals separating Aboriginal
children from their families and communities in the name of the
children's 'best interest'. This best interest was defined by white
bureaucrats and white social workers.
Now, when there is
once again a focus on the safety and health of Aboriginal children,
how can we be sure we have learnt the lessons from the past? How can
we ensure that the notion of 'children are sacred' does not once
again lead to the separation of children from families and
communities? More significantly, how can we ensure that communities
are able to take on the responsibility for their children rather
than outsiders define the problems and the 'solutions'.
Perhaps one way
for us to try to learn from the past is by ensuring that we
constantly reflect on the language we use. Perhaps we can ensure
that we never forget that it is not only Aboriginal children who are
sacred but also their relationships to family, community, culture
and land. Protecting Aboriginal children from sexual abuse, violence
and the effects of alcohol in communities is vital. So too, is
protecting them from being separated from their families,
communities, culture, land and history. We must find ways to do
both.
As we do so, I hope we can find ways to honour the sacredness
of children, young people, adults and elders, women and men. People
do not stop being sacred at a certain age. Honouring the sacredness
of our own lives, and the lives of others, may be a step towards
protecting our children, our families and our communities.
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