Abstinence and moderation
by
Anthony C
The term abstinence, for some, may conjure up images of the austere dunce
cap and ruler days, while the term moderation might evoke images of aphrodesia
and a world of self-mastery. For the Deconstructing Addiction League, we are
cautious about the abstinence versus moderation conversation for several
reasons. For starters, we do not wish to enter into a debate that simply
forces us to choose between one way and the other. Possibilities for action
become limited when absolute value judgments are placed on therapeutic
endeavors. Furthermore, we are concerned for the well being of others, and do
not wish to give the impression that we have found a cure for ‘addiction’ and
can teach others how to use in moderation. For some, the notion that it is
possible for them to use in moderation is a death sentence. While for others,
with the help of practices of harm reduction and additional support, it may be
possible for them to find a balance. Who are we to say what people can or
can’t do? However, there is still a danger in suggesting the possibility that
persons can shift from being under the influence of addiction to a life of
moderate use. We do not want to put definitive ideas into anyone’s head, but
unfortunately we can’t control the outcome or the way our writings are
interpreted. Due to the highly volatile nature of this conversation, we have
an ethical responsibility to monitor the effects of our perspectives on the
lives of people. For instance, if anything said here or in the other writings,
stimulates a craving to use or the desire to switch from a non-drug/alcohol
lifestyle back to a life that involves drug/alcohol use, please let us know
and we will try to adjust our writings and practices. Everything said and
done, or not said and not done has an effect on people’s lives. It is our
intention to tread lightly and to provide new ways of working with people
around excessive consumption and/or addiction, while being aware of the
dangers and reflecting on the outcome of our actions.
It might be easier to briefly describe what it is that we are doing and
then invite your reflections. The first project in association with the
deconstructing addiction league is to develop a community based resource
informed by Narrative Practice, in order to help persons break from addiction
and /or excessive consumption. This group will use an abstinence approach
based on the rite of passage metaphor. Although this approach can technically
be called an abstinence model, we would prefer to emphasize what we are doing
versus what we are not doing. In other words, the maintenance of not using is
only one aspect of what we plan to do. Richly describing personal agency,
self-care and exploring other pleasures in life, are some of the other
dimensions that will be taken up. In short, this resource is for persons who
wish to stop their use and re-claim their lives.
We would like to make available on this web resource, some information
about harm reduction, but there are some concerns as to how this information
might be taken up. If a person is using drugs/alcohol and is trying to
minimize the harmful effects of their use, this might be helpful. It is
strongly advised that persons breaking their lives from the use of alcohol and
other drugs do not read this material. This may seem futile, and some may be
incited by the suggestion to not read, but please think about it for a second,
why burden yourself with a possible craving? To situate myself, the writer of
this piece in the context of the abstinence and moderation conversation, I
have been abstinent from alcohol and all other mood altering chemicals for the
past year and a half, and I plan on developing the league’s resource around
abstinence. For my own protection, I will not include myself any further in
the conversations around moderation, and I will not be reading the information
about harm reduction, however, I am pleased that practices of harm reduction
exist, and I wish everyone the best.
The League is currently developing a method of self-evaluation that will
enable people to better understand what is right for them in terms of this
conversation. Therapists are encouraged to share their understandings, and
familiarize themselves with this conversation if they have not already. Take
care, and may you live a beautiful life.
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